Sunday, October 5, 2014

Cleansing with the 28 day Fast Metabolism Diet

I went for my annual physical in September. The triage nurse took my height, weight and blood pressure then handed me a yellow sheet stating my BMI was way too high. After the exam itself my doctor told me my numbers were good except I needed to lose weight. Usually she suggests Weight Watchers. This year when I pushed for a suggestion she mentioned I try “The Fast Metabolism Diet” by Haylie Pomroy. My doctor is in really good shape, this is a diet she uses, the author is a nutritionist and the diet is based on science my doctor approves of. I wrote down the name of the book and bought it the next night. 


I have no trouble fasting (Yom Kippur) or eliminating foods (Pesach) for religious reasons but I can't seem to do it just on my own. I told myself this diet was proscribed by my doctor and I must follow it. I knew I would need to find a latte replacement so I experimented with allowed foods (well except for the sweeteners) till I had something that would work. I ended up with half a cup of unsweetened almond milk, half a cup of unsweetened coconut milk, a teaspoon of carob powder, a tsp of either honey, molasses or maple syrup and a sprinkle of cinnamon. It wasn't the same but good enough to work.


The diet lasts 28 days during which you give up wheat, corn, soy, liquor, caffeine, dairy,  refined sugar, dried fruit or fruit juice, artificial sweeteners and fat-free diet foods. You eat five times a day with three meals and two snacks, eating every three to four hours. You must eat within 30 mins of waking. Your week is divided up into three phases with each phase lasting 2 or 3 days. I discovered the Phase 1 breakfast would allow me my oatmeal and apple but not Phase 2. Phase 3 would allow me the oatmeal but I would have to substitute berries for the apple. I would have to consume some vegetables in all three phases and in Phase 3 I could have the latte substitute. 


You must stick to the foods on her phase lists for each of the phases. You must drink half of your body weight in fluid ounces of water each day. You should eat organic whenever possible. Your meat choices must be nitrate-free. You must exercise three times per week, according to the phase you are in. Although you can't technically can't have wheat the diet does allow an exception of sprouted wheat bread items. All of the sprouted wheat pre-made items I found had other ingredients such as corn I couldn't have. I googled sprouted wheat recipes, bought flour and baked up my own rolls. I also used the sprouted wheat flour to make challah and honey cake I could eat at school and friend's homes.


On Phase 2 days you only eat lean proteins and green vegetables. Your body then looks for fats in your body to burn. The first week for breakfast I had egg whites but later I became more creative with fish (halibut and salmon) and even chicken breast. I decided I would start the diet so the end date would be Yom Kippur, a day of fasting. I liked the idea of cleansing my body and working up to the day of atonement, in this case adding in an atonement for bad food choices. I reasoned after 28 days I would see how I felt and then I could then decide whether I wanted to continue, take a break or do a compromise diet. I would stick to Haylie’s rules except for on Shabbat when I would drink enough grape juice to make kiddish and eat a bite of challah to qualify for the blessing. I ended up breaking her rules as well with regards to sweeteners. While I never used refined sugar I did put a tsp of honey, molasses in my latte concoctions and in oatmeal.


So here I am at the end of the 28 days. The first week was hellish as I hadn’t really planned well for the phases plus I had a terrible caffeine headache. Trying to drink all of the water made me realize I don’t drink enough. I changed my traditional challah french toast Sunday lunch to salmon, egg, veggies and hummus. Otherwise I was surprised that I felt full and only had cravings one night when I let 8 hours go by without eating. I feel very “clean” inside and I lost a total of 15 pounds both of which are pretty exciting. Perhaps I would have lost even more if I had did all the exercising suggested. I did for the cardio and yoga days but I never did the strength training.


It isn't rocket science to realize I was eating less processed food. Another Phase 3 lunch was hard boiled eggs, veggies, homemade guacamole and plums and berries. Like in the ending of the “Wizard of Oz” movie I ask myself “What did you learn Dorothy (Menuhah)? 
1. I can live without dairy.
2. I can live without refined sugar.
3. I can live without sodas.
4. I can live without much bread.
5. I need to increase the amount of water I drink.



This morning I made my Phase 3 breakfast of steel cut oatmeal with berries and a tsp of honey, a cup of sliced cucumbers and two glasses of water however I added a pot of green tea (which has caffeine) and instead of a cup of berries (allowed on Phase 3) I had an apple (not on Phase 3 list of allowed fruits). My plan is to deeply reflect on my food choices as I go back into the world. Haylie makes lots of suggestions in her book from the idea to continue the diet for another 28 days to having you see how you don’t really need many of the foods you thought you needed. I intend to reflect deeply on my food choices each day and write another blog piece at the end of the next 28 days. Let's see what happens!

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Words at the Gan Siyum: Do the right thing Rimonim!



Teachers, parents, children and other family.

Today was the siyum of Gan HaYeled, the pre-school where I work. The Hebrew word "siyum" means "completion" and in Judaism refers to the completion of any unit of Torah study, or book of the Mishnah or Talmud, Jewish law. At the Gan it replaces the word "graduation" for our school goodbye ritual of teachers, parents and students. Each year that ritual has been altered a bit and this year each class group started in their classroom for 45 mins, then joined together with others for some songs and snacks. In the Rimonim class I let every parent and grandparent have time to say something. Then I called all of the children to come close to my assistant and I to pass on some words. I usually don't write down what I say but think if over and over until I feel it is in my bones before delivering it. This year I knew that at least one person was going to be absent and rather then have them feel left out decided to write it out so later I could send it to them.

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I want all of the children to come close so I had talk to you.
First I want to talk to you about time.
What we are doing is not an ending. This is just a marking. We mark every moment and can never return to that moment again. We can however remember moments which have passed and that for whatever reason we hold dear. I hope you will have many moments from your time in the Rimonim class to remember.


Second I want to talk to you about people.
Not everyone we meet in life stays with us forever. Some are there briefly and we learn whatever lesson they are meant to teach us. With others we may become life long friends. Whether we continue to have each other physically in our lives or not the memories of our time together and the people we have known is ours to keep, to cherish and maybe even to talk about to someone else. This past Shavuot I was at a retreat with many graduates of mine, the oldest being sixteen. I can't tell you how much pleasure it gives me to see students grow and become the people they want to be. I saw students playing, reading torah, swimming.  I hope there were people this year in our Rimonim class that stay with you in whatever way that comes to pass.

What does all this mean?.
Life is like baseball. You get a certain number of innings. You get to bat, you get to catch, and hopefully you do the best you can and maybe sometimes you even get to win. One of my childhood memories is of Father Scanel at St. Bernadette's kindergarden singing to us. He loved God and he loved baseball. He taught us that we are all little grains of sand in this ocean of life. When he was in a particuliarly good mood he would sing us a song and I thought i would sing it for you. I am going to sing the first two verses for you and then I thought we could all sing together.

Take me out to the ball game
Take me out with the crowd
Buy me some peanuts and crackerjacks
I don't care if I never get back
Let me root, root, root
For the home team
If they don't win it's a shame.
For it's one, Two, Three strikes you're out
At the old ball game

All I need is just one chance
I could hit a home run
There isn't anyone else like me
Maybe I'll go down in history
And it's root, root, root
For the home team
Here comes fortune and fame
'Cause I know, That, I'll be the star
At the old Ball Game. 

(EVERYONE TOGETHER)
Take me out to the ball game
Take me out with the crowd
Buy me some peanuts and crackerjacks
I don't care if I never get back
Let me root, root, root
For the home team
If they don't win it's a shame
Aahh.
For it's one, 
Two,
Three strikes you're out
At the old ball game.

(As each child was called up we presented them with a portfolio of their work and I wrapped a paper chain made up of their links of their acts of kindness. I kissed them, telling them to "go do your work but always remember to be kind.")
Nathan and his grandmother look through his portfolio.

Monday, June 2, 2014

Counting the Omer-Week 7/KINGDOM-Day 7/KINGDOM


My student Nathan is behind that mask..

Week 7-/(Malchut) KINGDOM-Day 7/(Malchut) Kingdom

The last day/night of counting the omer this evening is all about how we connect ourselves to leadership. Is our leadership as solid as a rock or just a mask we hide behind? As we have refined ourselves through the 48 days of counting, we have been getting rid of what is extra or un-needed. Let our leadership lift up all of those around us and point us inward and upward. As we get ready to receive the Torah we don't need to be serious but everything that comes from us  needs to come from the heart. Maybe our energy will be from head to toe or maybe from side to side but the smile we have should be enough to shine. it may be that our brightness scares off some but still we should keep on shining. May this year be even a better one than the last. Just as we receive the tablets, shall we receive bundles of blessings. There is a touch of sadness as it may seem we have left behind beloved family and friends but it is not true, they are all standing with us at Sinai. 

After nightfall on Monday:

BA-RUCH A-TAH ADO-NAI E-LO-HE-NU ME-LECH HA-OLAM 
ASHER KID-E-SHA-NU BE-MITZ-VO-TAV VETZI-VA-NU AL SEFI-RAT HA-OMER.
Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments, and commanded us concerning the counting of the Omer.

Today is forty-nine days which is six weeks and seven days of the omer.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Counting the Omer-Week 7/KINGDOM-Day 6/BONDING


No matter where I go or what I do my first bond is with my mom.

Week 7-/(Malchut) KINGDOM-Day 6/(Yesod) BONDING

We all start off as helpless babies hopefully treated as if we were royalty by caregivers;  parent(s), grandparents or someone else. If everything goes as planned in the world things eventually turn around. Instead of being the one taken care of we are the ones who DO the taking care of. I think the first bonds we make set the stage for all the bonds to follow. Even if we are kings and queens or CEOS we need people to work with as well as a personal BFF, someone to bounce ideas off of, to cry with and cheer with. In a sermon, Devotions upon Emergent Occasions: Meditation #17, the seventeenth-century English author John Donne wrote "no man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main." Pick well the ones we can be close to and open our hearts to. Before writing tonight's piece I broke bread and sought counsel from my closest bond, my mom.  I can only wish you have such a bond.

After nightfall on Sunday:

BA-RUCH A-TAH ADO-NAI E-LO-HE-NU ME-LECH HA-OLAM 
ASHER KID-E-SHA-NU BE-MITZ-VO-TAV VETZI-VA-NU AL SEFI-RAT HA-OMER.
Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments, and commanded us concerning the counting of the Omer.

Today is forty-eight days which is six weeks and six days of the omer.